Boundaries Without Guilt
Mini-Course
 Why Boundaries Still Feel So Hard
You’ve read about boundaries. You know what you should say.
But when the moment comes, your throat tightens, your heart races, and the guilt rushes in.
You’re not overreacting — you’re remembering.
Your body learned early on that saying no could mean rejection, silence, or shame.
Now, every time you try to hold a line, your nervous system floods you with fear or guilt.
So you over-explain. You give in. You feel small again and call it “keeping the peace.”
Boundaries Without Guilt helps you stop this cycle.
You’ll finally understand what’s happening inside your body and what to say when it does.
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Learn to say what you need without guilt, fear, or emotional chaos.
Boundaries don’t have to end in conflict, guilt, or shutdown.
You can hold boundaries without losing connection — or yourself.
Prioritize your peace.
A trauma-informed course that helps you move from over-explaining and freezing under pressure to communicating calmly and confidently — even with emotionally immature people.
Lifetime access.
Self-paced video lessons.
Real-life language tools.
Includes:
Self-Paced Video Modules
Each module blends clinical insight with real-world application, helping you understand why boundaries feel hard and how to set them without fear or guilt.
You’ll learn how to identify emotional manipulation, calm your body’s reaction, and communicate clearly — even when others don’t respond well.
The Boundaries Workbook + Reflection Guide
 A companion guide to help you process, personalize, and apply what you learn.
Use the workbook to practice boundary statements, track emotional triggers, and write your boundary plans.
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Communication Scripts & Tools Library
Real-life language examples you can adapt for your own relationships.
Includes both gentle and direct versions for different situations — because boundaries shouldn’t sound like someone else’s words; they should sound like you.
Lifetime Access + Nervous System Support
You’ll get lifetime access to all modules, so you can revisit lessons whenever you need a reset.
The course includes somatic regulation exercises, grounding tools, and pacing guidance to help your body feel safe while you learn.
Course Content Preview
MODULE 01
Why Boundaries Feel So Hard with Emotionally Immature Parents
In this first module, you’ll learn why your body reacts with guilt, fear, or shutdown every time you try to set a limit — and how those reactions are rooted in early emotional conditioning.
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By the end of this module:
You’ll finally see why saying no feels threatening and how to meet those protective parts with understanding instead of guilt.
MODULE 02
What to Say & How to Say It Without Guilt
In this module, you’ll learn exactly what to say and how to say it — calmly, clearly, and without guilt.
This is where we translate awareness into language — so you can communicate boundaries that hold instead of collapse.
You’ll discover your personal “boundary blueprint,” explore real-life examples, and learn the phrases, tone, and timing that keep you grounded even when others push back.
By the end of this module:
You’ll have a repeatable process for setting boundaries that reflect your values, not your fear of someone’s reaction.
MODULE 03
 How to Handle Pushback
Setting a boundary is one thing.
Holding it when someone pushes back is the real work.
In this module, you’ll learn how to stay steady when others react with anger, guilt, silence, or manipulation. You’ll discover what healthy pushback looks like vs. emotional coercion, how to regulate your body in real time, and how to protect your peace when communication isn’t safe.
By the end of this module:
You’ll know how to hold the line without losing yourself—responding, not reacting, even when someone tries to pull you back into old patterns.
  What Changes When You Learn This Work
When you stop seeing boundaries as confrontation — and start seeing them as communication — everything shifts.
You start noticing:
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The guilt quiets faster.
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The freeze turns into pause, not paralysis.
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You stop over-apologizing and start self-trusting.
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You feel calm even when someone else doesn’t.
This isn’t about learning the “perfect script". It’s about retraining your nervous system to stay steady enough to speak your truth.
Because when your body feels safe, your words do, too.
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This Course Was Made for You If…
This course is for you if:
You grew up walking on eggshells with emotionally immature parents.
You feel guilty after setting even the smallest boundary.
You over-explain yourself to avoid conflict.
You’ve read every boundaries book, but still struggle to hold the line when they pushback.
You don’t need more information — you need integration.
Boundaries Without Guilt bridges clinical insight, nervous system safety, and real-world language so you can stop rehearsing boundaries and start living them.
Imagine This Instead…
You say no without your voice shaking.
You stop justifying your needs.
You can stay calm when someone else gets defensive.
 You trust your inner voice more than their reaction.
 You stop replaying the conversation in your head for days.
That’s what happens when guilt stops running the show and self-trust takes over.
Boundaries Without Guilt gives you the framework to get there.
Hi! I'm Tricia.
The voice behind The Healing Eras.
Where clinical insight meets radical self-trust.
I help adult children of emotionally immature parents reclaim their voice, set boundaries without guilt, and break painful generational patterns.
For over 15 years, I’ve worked across nearly every corner of the mental health system—as a trauma therapist, consultant, strategist, and published author. I’ve served in hospitals, schools, outpatient programs, community-based care and private practice.
Again and again, I found myself supporting people through what no one had named for them:
- The invisible imprint of childhood emotional neglect
- The chronic tension of being the “responsible one”
- The disorientation of trying to set boundaries with those who raised you
I created The Healing Eras to support those who are ready to set limits without shame or self-doubt.
There are many people online offering coaching and emotional support, but not all of them are trained or qualified to hold the complexity of what you might be carrying.
As a licensed mental health professional, I bring clinical insight and ethical grounding to everything I create. That means you can trust that the tools I share are thoughtful, informed by evidenced based frameworks, and designed to translate neuroscience into practice.
And while I bring professional training to this work, I also understand it on a personal level. My work is rooted in a deep understanding of what it means to grow up around emotional immaturity — and how to gently reclaim your boundaries, voice, and inner safety.
The content and services I provide on The Healing Eras isn’t therapy. But it is built with the same care and containment I offered in the therapy office—combined with practical tools, accessible language, and support for real-life healing.
Enroll Now - $97This isn’t a “just say no” course.
It’s a trauma-informed framework built by a licensed clinical social worker with 15+ years of experience in trauma and family dynamics.
You’ll learn how to:
Recognize your body’s stress responses before they sabotage your boundary.
Use The Boundary Formula to speak boundaries that hold.
Move on from guilt and emotional manipulation with calm and self-trust.
Everything is grounded in evidence-based psychology, but delivered in a way that feels like a conversation, not a lecture.
You’ve spent years keeping the peace.
It’s time to protect your peace instead.